MOrning:) The power of vulnerability
I did not have intention writing about this subject. But this morning i
checked Helens blog, like i did every Monday Module ago, and i saw
really impressive speech of Brené Brown about the vulnerability. So
today, like i already write on Helens blogh, i eill say something about
our vulnerability is actually our strength, but most of us never see
ourselves in that way. It is much easier to struggle with it, scream,
expect for someones call and look miserable, having everything under
certainty (which is also so sad and exhausted) than start listening
ourselves, being worthy, stop to be perfect, rather start to be brave to
be seen deeply, vulnerably and worthy of love and belonging. I think
most of us were been there and when we admit to ourselves that reality
than we can move on in our relationships, work, creativity, joy,
sadness,... Vulnerability is part of creative people, especially people
in arts,writing, dance, movement, drama...we are showing that
vulnerability every day , we are exposed, we let ourselves to be seen
deeply, we are open as a book cause being vulnerable is being honest to
the others but to oneself as well. this is our tool to show core of fear
but also safe place of joy, love and belonging.
During the studying i
found very vulnerable place, blog. Firstly, i did not know what to
write. I mean i have thoughts, something to say but still when i
realized that this needs to come out in public, i started to be a bit in
panic, what to write, what to say , how smart this should be, bla,
bla,,,than i just breathe in and started with writing. i trusted myself
in this process. this is only what we have. We must treat ourselves the
best. Think that we are worthy. and suddenly this sounds so pathetic but
it is not! and this is the point where society what us to think. that
it is wrong if we show our true face, true feelings, that our time in
not worthy..well this is wrong and we should not believe such a things
this is important to repeat every single day. that is how we becoming
strong. By believing in ourselves, not matter what others think. this
should become our mantra.
How do you feel about it? what are your
thoughts? have you ever lost part of yourselves just to be connected
somewhere in society, in order to be someone else?
share your thoughts, connect, be brave, ...